Wednesday, May 23, 2012

What matters most

Yesterday in my meeting with Ramona, she said that more important than anything I do or anything else I'll learn during grad school,  is what I'll learn about myself, what I love, and what matters most to me.
She said that what we most value is often put at the mercy of other things.

Grad school is teaching me (again) that I love people more than things, that I would rather spend time with a friend or family than become something other than what I am.  But I think  that that makes me into more than I would be otherwise.  When I was downstairs filing cum files today at lunch, John, Jesse and Mathis showed up just to say hi.  They gave me some beautiful flowers as a "You can do it!" reminder.  The best part was seeing them.  I hate that family and friend time is being sacrificed for school.  Something to remember if I ever think I want to do a PhD.

Another thing that is being sacrificed, (and often is when I get busy, grad school or not) is exercise time.  I need to move!

Today:
E: pm yoga, tug 'o war
B: banana
L: green smoothie
D: spring mix, tomatoes, mushrooms, black beans

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